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Feeling Discouraged
Recently, I’ve been feeling tired and discouraged. It snuck up on me. First, a volunteer project required more time and energy than I...
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Apr 234 min read


Happy Birthday?
Birthdays can be complicated for many of us. First, we’re excited to grow older and celebrate fun milestones – turning 16 and getting our...
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Apr 24 min read


It’s Not Just My Story
When giving presentations, I mention I’m going to share part of my experience in an abusive dating relationship as a way to highlight...
Dee Dee Said
Mar 262 min read


Warning Sign: Getting Serious Quickly
I met Smith on a dating app. After messaging a few times, we met for a date. I enjoyed spending time with him and was excited when he...
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Mar 193 min read


Recognizing and Managing Stress
Last year, circumstances over a period of about six months were challenging and stressful, and I didn’t manage them well. Thinking back...
Dee Dee Said
Feb 264 min read


Should we have a Breakup List?
Last week, I shared the story of Brock lying to me about wrecking his dad’s truck. When I discovered the truth and asked Brock why he...
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Feb 263 min read


The Lie I Wish I’d Seen
After Brock and I had been dating for a few weeks, he called me one night as I was getting ready for bed. He told me he’d been in an...
Dee Dee Said
Feb 263 min read


Why Don’t They Just Leave: How Stress Impacts Decision-Making
My friends would describe me as strong, capable, and dependable. I have my flaws, and work to recognize areas for improvement and grow....
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Feb 194 min read


Understanding Trauma Bonds
A view from the bike at sunrise. In the last post , I wrote about my struggle to leave, and then stay away from, a dating partner who was...
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Feb 44 min read


Getting off the Roller Coaster
A view from the bike at sunrise. As an adult, I found myself in an unhealthy relationship. When we first met, and got to know each other,...
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Jan 223 min read
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