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Understanding and Breaking Trauma Bonds
Earlier, I shared that I was grateful for a terrible incident while dating Brock because it helped me see the abuse for what it was....
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Jun 116 min read


Tuning Into Ourselves
Over the past few years, I’ve experienced two seasons where I didn’t recognize how stressful circumstances had become until I was anxious...
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Jun 43 min read


Blinded by Stress
Recently, the drain pan in my shower failed. After looking into repair options, I discovered the best solution was to rebuild the shower....
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May 284 min read


Happy Birthday?
Birthdays can be complicated for many of us. First, we’re excited to grow older and celebrate fun milestones – turning 16 and getting our...
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Apr 24 min read


Recognizing and Managing Stress
Last year, circumstances over a period of about six months were challenging and stressful, and I didn’t manage them well. Thinking back...
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Feb 264 min read


Why Don’t They Just Leave: How Stress Impacts Decision-Making
My friends would describe me as strong, capable, and dependable. I have my flaws, and work to recognize areas for improvement and grow....
Dee Dee Said
Feb 194 min read


Understanding Trauma Bonds
A view from the bike at sunrise. In the last post , I wrote about my struggle to leave, and then stay away from, a dating partner who was...
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Feb 44 min read


Insecurities and the Unexpected
I’m in the middle of a busy season at work—so busy that I opted to work half a day on Labor Day, one of LLS’s designated holidays. I knew...
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Sep 11, 20246 min read


Managing Victim Mentality
One of the side effects of being in an abusive relationship is developing a victim mentality – when you perceive bad things are going to...
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Jul 24, 20243 min read


The Struggle to Be STILL
As an adult, when I struggled with anxiety after a harmful relationship, I couldn’t remember feeling this way before and wondered why my...
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Jul 3, 20245 min read
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