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Managing Victim Mentality
One of the side effects of being in an abusive relationship is developing a victim mentality – when you perceive bad things are going to...
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Jul 24, 20243 min read


The Bigger Reason to Be Still
In the last post, we mentioned why making time for downtime is beneficial. At the end of the post, I touched on the fact that David knew...
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Jul 17, 20243 min read


The Struggle to Be STILL
As an adult, when I struggled with anxiety after a harmful relationship, I couldn’t remember feeling this way before and wondered why my...
Dee Dee Said
Jul 3, 20245 min read


Self-Compassion: An Essential Step in the Recovery and Healing Process
Survivors are often critical of themselves. After I ended an emotionally abusive relationship, I gave myself a hard time, telling myself...
Dee Dee Said
Jun 26, 20244 min read


Supporters Need Care Too
I know my parents and best friends went through a lot when I was in an abusive relationship.
I was secretive, but my parents saw the bruise
Dee Dee Said
Jun 19, 20244 min read


Empathy: Supporting Someone in or after a Harmful Relationship
We don’t want our loved ones to be hurt. If someone we care about is in a harmful relationship, we want them away from the person who is...
Dee Dee Said
Jun 12, 20243 min read


Rebuilding Self-Esteem
Finishing a half marathon in running shorts I questioned after an unhealthy relationship. As we heal from an unhealthy or abusive...
Dee Dee Said
Jun 5, 20243 min read


Resiliency – it might look a little different than we think
At the end of my first 100-mile bike ride, fundraising for The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.
Dee Dee Said
May 29, 20246 min read


10 Tips To Heal After An Abusive Relationship
Last week I shared how two years after I left a harmful relationship, I still struggled with wearing shorts because of unwanted sexual...
Dee Dee Said
May 22, 20247 min read


The Aftermath of Unwanted Sexual Advances
A few years ago, after dating a man, Russ, for a few weeks, he wanted us to become sexually active. We were exclusive and he thought it...
Dee Dee Said
May 15, 20248 min read
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