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Dee Dee Said
Jun 19, 20244 min read
Supporters Need Care Too
I know my parents and best friends went through a lot when I was in an abusive relationship.
I was secretive, but my parents saw the bruise

Dee Dee Said
Jun 12, 20243 min read
Empathy: Supporting Someone in or after a Harmful Relationship
We don’t want our loved ones to be hurt. If someone we care about is in a harmful relationship, we want them away from the person who is...


Dee Dee Said
Jun 5, 20243 min read
Rebuilding Self-Esteem
Finishing a half marathon in running shorts I questioned after an unhealthy relationship. As we heal from an unhealthy or abusive...


Dee Dee Said
May 29, 20246 min read
Resiliency – it might look a little different than we think
At the end of my first 100-mile bike ride, fundraising for The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.


Dee Dee Said
May 22, 20247 min read
10 Tips To Heal After An Abusive Relationship
Last week I shared how two years after I left a harmful relationship, I still struggled with wearing shorts because of unwanted sexual...


Dee Dee Said
May 15, 20248 min read
The Aftermath of Unwanted Sexual Advances
A few years ago, after dating a man, Russ, for a few weeks, he wanted us to become sexually active. We were exclusive and he thought it...


Dee Dee Said
May 8, 20243 min read
Healing from Shame
“ I should have known better .” It’s something I’ve told myself and something I’ve heard other survivors say. It’s natural, but it holds...


Dee Dee Said
May 1, 20244 min read
The Diplomat - Why I don't think it's Emmy Worthy
Recently I watched a show I should not have. I wanted to watch something and didn’t have the time to scroll through Netflix to find a...


Dee Dee Said
Apr 24, 20243 min read
Origins of Unhealthy Relationships
I recently watched the movie, I Can Only Imagine. In the movie, the father is abusive to his wife and son and they both eventually leave...

Dee Dee Said
Apr 17, 20243 min read
Why I stopped watching Friends
I was 24 years old when the show Friends debuted on TV; about the same age as the characters in the show. Their lives - the ups and...
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